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Community guidelines

Incendia Society exists so that adults in the lifestyle can find each other, find places, and talk honestly without being catfished, exposed or harassed. These rules are what make that possible. Breaking them gets content removed; breaking the serious ones gets you banned.

1. Adults only, always

Every member is 18 or older and confirms it at signup. Any content involving, depicting or suggesting minors results in an immediate permanent ban and a report to the relevant authorities.

2. Consent is the whole point

Only post images of people who agreed to be posted here. Never share content from private galleries, messages, or other sites. No revenge content, no leaked content, no hidden-camera content.

3. Real people, verified by people

Verification photos must be of you, taken now, with the hand-written code. AI-generated, edited, stock or stolen images mean a permanent ban. Profile and gallery photos must be of the account holder(s).

4. Explicit content, with review

Nudity and explicit images are allowed for verified members, and only become visible after a human review. Mark them honestly. Public (SFW) photos must be safe for work.

5. Discretion

No screenshots. No sharing anyone's real name, workplace, exact address, phone number or social accounts. What happens in Incendia Society stays in Incendia Society.

6. No harassment, no pressure

No means no, in every thread and every gallery. Unsolicited explicit content, repeated unwanted contact and pressure to meet are bans.

7. No commerce in the community

No escorting, no paid content promotion, no solicitation, no spam. Venues and organisers list themselves through the directory, not the feed.

8. Honest reviews

Review venues and events you actually attended. Venue owners must claim their listing rather than review themselves.

Report anything that breaks these rules with the Report button. Every report is read by a person.